Strength.Courage.Hope: Fight for what you believe in...

Friday, January 21, 2011

Fight for what you believe in...

So the other day I decided to send an e-mail to Virginia's governor to get a proclamation for CHD Awareness week which by the way is February 7-14 if you didn't know. I'm happy to say that today in the mail I received a copy of the proclamation & I'm proud to say that Virginia will recognize February 7-14 as CHD Awareness week. So PLEASE be sure you do something during that week to tell someone something about CHDs even if it's posting a website on your blog or your Facebook or ANYTHING! And if you're a CHD mom or have been blessed to know someone with a special heart, be sure to tell someone your story!! Also be sure to wear red all week or one day even!! I will stand up and fight for all of the broken & mended little hearts around the world and for those who fought and are our angels now! There is a lot one can learn from these kids or adults with a special heart! They really give life a meaning! I love my little one with a special heart, Kayden <3

Anyways, I did talk with UVA the other day. They've decided to cancel Kayden's appointment with them which was suppose to be on January 26. They've been e-mailing Boston & getting them all of his information. They are also trying to work out an appointment where we can make one trip, to do the evaluation & do the surgery. Which seems reasonable, that way they don't have to send him home & we come back up for surgery. Gosh this all just seems so unreal anymore!! I mean the doctors have talked for the past few months about surgery & what should be done, and it's right here at us! I don't know how to feel anymore..I just know that I've got mixed feelings about everything. I know the surgery has to be done or else he won't live & I also know that there is a chance I may never have him again after the surgery. I just have to have faith & pray & know my son is strong enough to fight, that is what will give me the strength to get through this surgery!! He has been fighting and he will fight for his life and I will be there fighting with him I will NOT let go of him that easily!! So please continue to keep my little man in your prayers, and I'll keep the updates coming!!

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Wodzisz FamilyJanuary 22, 2011 at 6:59 AM
I am so happy you got the proclamation.

I am keeping all of you in my thoughts and prayers.
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About Me

My name is Misty. I'm 26 years old from Roanoke, VA. I am a single mom to my little ones. I've got 5 kids. Alexis, Kayden, Tavion & Isaiah. Kayden is my little Angel, he went to live with the Angels July 14, 2011 waiting on a heart transplant, he was 3.5 years old. Alexis is my oldest she is almost 9, Tavion is 5, Isaiah is 4, and Elijah is 4 months. I enjoy reading, watching movies, blogging, quiet nights(when possible), and long drives listening to music. I started blogging to tell people about Kayden's journey with a broken heart, now it's about life with him as an Angel & how I deal and you'll also get to know my other little ones. You can also visit Kayden's page at www.kaydenjames.weebly.com or on facebook at www.facebook.com/KaydenJamesCHDAngel

My Family

Little Miss Lexi

Alexis is my first child & my only girl. She was born on February 9, 2006. I found out I was pregnant with Lexi 2 months after I had a miscarriage. I was quite surprised that I was pregnant but I was excited along with scared and nervous. She is the best big sister anyone could ask for. She helps with her brothers & she helps me if I need her to..She is a very smart little girl as well, right now she is in preschool. I can't believe my baby girl is almost in Kindergarten. It's true that time doesn't stop for nothing.

Superman

Kayden took his first breath on December 21, 2007 and took his last breath on July 14, 2011. Kayden was born with a bilateral cleft lip and palate, dilated cardiomyopathy & a displaced tricuspid valve with tricuspid regurgitation. He had 6 surgeries in his 3 1/2 years. He had 3 to complete his cleft lip/palate, pyloric stenosis at a month old, a preauricular cyst removed & open heart surgery on March 17, 2011. He always had a smile on his face no matter how many challenges were thrown his way. I miss my child more than anything in this world. I love Kayden more than words can ever say. I am broken and will never be repaired, he was my life & my heart is shattered since he lost his battle with his CHD. I'll never stop telling his story because people need to be aware of what is possible & I would like to think that Kayden's life will save another child.

Crazy Tavy

My middle boy, Tavion James. Tavion was born on May 13, 2009 at 37 weeks. He was my biggest yet shortest baby born lol! He is a handful right now he is at the age he wants to get into everything. Although he is small still he holds his ground and has an attitude. He is starting to get into the terrible twos which is never fun but we will survive. He's an amazing little boy and always keep us smiling. Tavion has no health problems that we've noticed and hopefully he continues to stay that way.

Superman's Baby

Isaiah James was welcomed into the world on December 16, 2010 at 3:02 a.m. He weighed 7 lbs 11 oz. & was 20 1/2 inches!! He had a head full of beautiful black hair (just like his sister did). Kayden absolutely loved him and called him his baby. He's so full of energy, loves his brothers and his sister.
My Rainbow

Elijah was born on August 22, 2014, he was 7 lbs 14.8 oz. He's an absolute blessing. Elijah is my rainbow baby, I was so unsure about having more kids after I lost Kayden, but now I see Kayden picked this little fella to send me. I couldn't imagine my life without him. His smile brightens up my darkest day.